Monday, November 20, 2017

Every Step

There is someone who has been with me every step of the way, my rock steady for 25+ years. Our most devastating year was 2016, of course, when we lost Adam. We lost ourselves at times, too. The image comes to mind of Pat visiting me at my Topps grocery store bakery job, with a 3 year old Adam (Nuke to him) on his shoulders. He would often pick him up at daycare, and spend the evening entertaining him while I worked. During this time the notorious "grape video" was made. Adam and I both appear a bit uncomfortable in front of the camera on a tripod, as Pat fake stuffed grapes up his nose and made iconic "Pat" jokes. He introduced Adam to Terminator 2, the "thirty dollar gun" and "Edward Cigarhands," our crusty and scary next door neighborhood drunk, who teased children with a rubber snake.

We have held each other up when the other was down, even when we didn't know it. Through the recent cancer scare, Pat has gone above and beyond to support me, and I don't give him enough credit. This blog's for you, Pat. Here's to 25  more 💙 (foibles and all).

3 comments:

Patrick Denecke said...

Peace...I am Fobie

Betsy Vick said...

And that snake smelled like cigars too!

Yay for Pat!!! His dedication to family is remarkable. :-)

Anonymous said...

We all love you so much and are always here for you. Some times we may seem distant but each of us deals with life in our own way. Always there is love everlasting.